Been with swinging couples in the past, always fun, I'm usually pretty open with most things in the bedroom, just no extreme pain.
I wouldn't want to cause that kind of pain to anyone. I am a Straight caucasian gentleman, who has had some expereince of this lifestyle and every moment of it has Millry been enjoyable. (If you are in law enforcement, firefighter, airline pilot, That's a turn on for me I know they are Dominant! My ideal trickster is someone that takes care of themselves both physically and mentally.